First time: all the things that are going to happen that we won't tell you

First time: all the things that are going to happen that we won't tell you

First time: all the things that are going to happen that we won't tell you Erstes Mal: ​​all die Dinge, die passieren werden, die wir dir nicht erzählen

Chloé Thibaud Journalist, director and author

in collaboration with dr. Ghada Hatem (gynaecologist) and Clémentine du Pontavice, founder of La Maison des femmes

because we put pressure on ourselves by telling ourselves that we have to make sure. That we don't show it in the movies... while everyone, without exception, goes through it."," imageAlt ":" You're going to have trouble getting your condom put on "," imageTopUrl ": {" screenXxsMax ":" https: \ / \ / resize3.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 422,281 , center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first time \ / first-time-orgasms-condoms-anxiety-erection \ / You-will-have-problems-threading-a-condom \ / 8512526-1-eng-FR \ / Vous-aurez-du-mal-a-enfiler-votre-preservatif.jpg "," widthXxsMax ":" 422 "," heightXxsMax ":" 281 "," screenXsMax ": " https: \ / \ / resize3.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 492.328, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first-time \ / first-time-orgasmen-condoms-fear-erection \ / you-should-have-mal-a -enf iler-condatif \ / 8512526-1-eng-DE \ / Vous-aurez-du-mal-a-enfiler-votre-preservatif.jpg "," widthXsMax ":" 492 "," heightXsMax ":" 328 ", " screenSmMax ":" https: \ / \ / resize3.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 688,459, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / de \ / www \ / sexuality \ / premiere-fois \ / first-time-orgasms-condoms-fear-erection \ / you-will-be-difficult-to-put-on-a-condom \ / 8512526-1-ger-DE \ / you-will -have-some-pain-a-enfiler-votre-condatif.jpg "," widthSmMax ":" 688 "," heightSmMax ":" 459 "," screenMdMax ":" https://resize3.prod.docfr .doc-media.fr/r/647.431, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop/img/var/doctissimo/storage/images/en/www/sexuality/first-time / first-time-orgasms-condoms-fear-erections \ / you-will-be-difficult-to-thread-condom \ / 8512526-1-eng-DE \ / Vous-aurez-du-mal-a-enfiler-votre-preservationif . jpg", "widthMdMax": "647", "heightMdMax": "431", "screenLgMin": "https: \ / \ / resize3.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 648,432, center -middle, ffffff , smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first-time \ / first-time-orgasmen-condoms-fear-erection \ / you-will-have-du-mal-a-enfiler-condatif \ / 8512526-1 -eng-DE \ / Vous-aurez-du-mal-a-enfiler-votre-preservatif.jpg "," widthLgMin ":" 648 "," heightLgMin " : "432"}}, {"slug": "du -will-probably-use-lubricant "," title ":" You will probably use lube "," description ":"

We never see it in the movies, and yet it's almost essential: the lube. Beuaocup thinks that if a partner isn't "lubed up enough," they won't be sufficiently attracted or aroused. Regardless of age, there's no shame in lube use: Natural lubrication is often not enough.The lubricant moisturizes the intimate area to facilitate penetration.To find the one that suits you best, you should read the composition of the products.You can find them in the Passage du Désir , Dorcel, Sexy Avenue, Rue des Plaisirs, Adam and Eve and many others.\Not

and make it more comfortable for both partners. A water-based, condom-compatible lubricant is best. "," ImageAlt ":" You will probably use lube "," imageTopUrl ": {" screenXxsMax ":" https://resize2.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr\/r\/422,281,center- middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexualite \ / first-time \ / first -time-condom-orgasms-anxiety-erection \ / you -will-probably-use lubes \ /8512542-1-ger-DE \ /You-will-probablement-du-lubrifiant.jpg "," widthXxsMax ":" 422 "," heightXxsMax ":" 281 "," screenXsMax " :" https: \ / \ / resize2.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 492.328, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first-time \ / first-time-orgasmen-condoms-fear-erection \ / you-will-probably-use -lubrifiant \ / 8512542-1-ger-DE \ / You-probablement -du-lubrifiant.jpg "," widthXsMax ":" 492 "," heightXsMax ":" 328 "," screenSmMax ":" https: \ ///resize2 .prod.docfr.doc-media.fr\/r\ /688.4 59,center-middle,ffffff,smartcrop\/img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first-time \ / first-time-orgasmen-condoms-fear- erection \ / you-will-probably-use- Lubricants \ /8512542-1-eng-EN\/You-will-probably-use-lubricants.jpg","widthSmMax":"688","heightSmMax":"459", "screenMdMax":"https:\/ \/ ​​resize2.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 647.431, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexualite \ /premiere-fois\/premiere-fois-orgasmes-preservatifs-peur-erection\/vous-use-probablement-lubrifiant\/8512542-1-fre-FR\/ Vous- utilez-probablement-du-lubrifiant.jpg ", "widthMdMax": "647", "heightMdMax": "431", "screenLgMin": "https: \ / \ / resize2.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ /r\/648,432, center-middle , ffffff , smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first-time \ / first-time-orgasms- condoms-fear-erection will-probably h-lubricant \ / 8512542-1-ger-DE \ / Vous-use-probablement-du-lubrifiant.jpg "," widthLgMin ":" 648 "," heightLgMin ":" 432 "}}, {" slug ": " on-chain-not-positions-like-pros "," title ":" We don't chain positions like pros "," description":"

In real life, we don't necessarily manage to chain positions like we do in a music video. Sometimes it doesn't work out, we pop our heads, we get our feet stuck, we laugh. Even more so when it comes to our very first report!\ "If you don't feel super comfortable at first, you don't have to start in original positions," says Clémentine du Pontavice. You can just start and it's just as enjoyable \". "," ImageAlt " : "We don't concatenate positions like pros", "imageTopUrl": {"screenXxsMax": "https://resize.prod.docfr.doc -media.fr/r/422,281,center-middle,ffffff,smartcrop/img/var/doctissimo/storage/images/en/www/sexuality/first-time/first -time-orgasmen-condoms-fear-erection \ /on-enchaine-pas-positions-comme-des-pros\/8512558-1-fre-FR\/On-n-enchaine-pas-les-positions-comme- des-pros.jpg","widthXxsMax": "422", "heightXxsMax": "281", " screenXsMax": "https: \ / \ / resize.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 492.328, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / de \ / www \ / sexuality \ / for the first time \ / for the first time-orgasms-condoms-fear- Erection \ / on-enchaine-pas-positions-comme-des-pros \ / 8512558-1-eng- FR \ /On-n-enchaine-pas-les-positions-comme-des-pros.jpg "," WidthXsMax ":" 492 "," heightXsMax ":" 328 "," scr eenSmMax ":" https: / / / resize.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr / / r / 688.459, mid-mid, ffffff, smartcrop / / img / / var / doctissimo / / storage / / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first time \ / first-time-orgasmen-condoms-fear-erection \ / on-enchaine-pas -positions-comme-des-pros \ / 8512558-1-eng-FR \ /On-n-enchaine-pas-les-positions-comme-des-pros.jpg "," widthSmMax ":" 688 "," heightSmMax ":" 459 "," screenMdMax ":" https: \ / \ / resize.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 647431, mid-mid, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / de \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first-time \ / first-time-orgasmen-condoms-fear-erection \ / on-enchaine-pas-positions-comme-des-pros \ /8512558-1-ger-DE\/On-n-enchaine-pas -les-positions-comme-des-pros.jpg","widthMdMax":"647","heightMdMax":"431","screenLgMin " : "https: \ / \ / resize.prod.docfr.doc-media .fr//r//648,432, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop//img//var/doctissimo//storage// images \ / de \ / www \ / sexuality \ / for the first time \ / for the first time-orgasms-condoms-fear-erection \ /on-enchaine-pas-positions-comme-des-pros \ / 8512558-1-eng -FR \ /On-n-enchaine-pas-les-positions-comme-des-pros.jpg "," widthLgMin ":" 648 "," heightLgMin ":" 432 "}}, {" slug ":" speaks you "," title ":" Do you speak! "," Description ":"

You probably think of many sex scenes in your films and series, where from the moment of sex everyone is silent and the music starts. That's not entirely wrong, sometimes it really happens that way. But you have absolutely the right to have sex with the other person to talk: to say nice, reassuring things to him or to guide him in expressing what you like or don't like. As our obstetrician-gynecologist reminds us, \"To each his own way of speaking and feeling!\". "," ImageAlt ":" Speak! "," ImageTopUrl ": {" screenXxsMax ":" https: \ / \ /resize1.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 422,281, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality\/premiere-fois\/first-fois-orgasmen-preservatives-anxiety-erection\/parlez-you\/8512574-1-eng-DE\ /Parlez-vous.jpg","widthXxsMax":"422", "heightXxsMax": "281", "screenXsMax": "https: \ / \ / resize1.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 492.328, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \/doctissimo\/speicher\/images\/en\/www\/sexuality\/firsts\/firsts-orgasms-condoms-fear-erections\/ do you speak \/8512574-1-eng- EN \ /Parlez-vous.jpg "," widthXsMax ":" 492 "," heightXsMax ":" 328 "," screenSmMax ":" https: \ / \ / resize1.prod .docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 688,459, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first time \ / first-time-orgasms-condoms - anxiety-erection \ /parlez-vous \ / 8512574-1-ger-DE \ /Parlez-vous.jpg "," widthSmMax ":" 688 "," heightSmMax ":" 459 "," screenMdMax ":" https: \ / \ /resize1.prod.docfr. doc-media.fr\/r\/647,431,center-middle,ffffff,smartcrop\/img\/var\/doctissimo\/storage\/images\/fr\/www\/sexualite \ / for the first time \ / first-time-orgasm-condoms-fear-erection \ / are you speaking \ / 8512574-1-ger-DE \ /Parlez-vous.jpg "," widthMdMax ":" 647 "," heightMdMax ":" 431 "," screenLgMin ":" https: \ / \ / resize1.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 648,432, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ /doctissimo\/speicher\/images #### 648","heightLgMin":"432"

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Some people moan, sigh, others scream or remain silent when they are happy... There is no rule. But in porn movies very often you see women screaming with joy and exclaiming: "Oh yes, come on, take me like this", and so on. Remember, these are actors and actresses. If your sweetheart doesn't start repeating your first name very loudly, that doesn't mean he/she isn't happy to be in your arms (and if it's your first time When you're with your parents, it's a safe bet that you'll want to remain discreet!). "," imageAlt : "You won't\u201coh yeah, oh ouiii! \u201c","imageTopUrl":{"screenXxsMax":"shout:\/\/resize2.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr\/r\/422,281,center-middle,ffffff,smartcrop\/img\/ var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first- time \ / first-time-orgasms-condoms-fear-erection \ / you-don't-want-to-scream-oh-yeah \ / 8513192-1-eng-FR \ / Du-ne-crierez-pas-oh-oui- oh-ouiii.jpg "," widthXxsMax ":" 422 "," heightXxsMax ":" 281 "," screenXsMax ": " https: / / / resize2.prod.docfr.doc -media.fr / / r / 492,328, middle-middle, ffffff, smartcrop / img / var / doctissimo / storage / images / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / premiere-fois \ / premiere -times-orgasms-condoms-fear- erection \ / you-don't-yell-oh-yes \ / 8513192-1-eng-FR \ / you-yell- not-oh-ja-oh-ouiii.jpg "," widthXsMax ":" 492 "," heightXsMax ":" 328 "," screenSmMax ":" https://resize2.prod.docfr.doc-media. fr / r / 688.459, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop / img / var / doct issimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first-time \ / first-time-orgasmen-condoms-fear-erection \ /vous-ne-crierez-pas-oh-oui\/8513192 -1-ger-DE\/ Vous-ne-crierez-pas-oh-oui-oh-ouiii.jpg","widthSmMax":"688", "heightSmMax": "459", "screenMdMax": "https: \ / \ / resize2.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 647.431, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ /doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / de \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first-time \ / first-time-condom-orgasmen-angst-erection \ / you-will-not-cry-oh-yes \ /8513192-1-ger-DE\/ Vous-ne-crierez -pas-oh-oui-oh-ouiii.jpg","widthMdMax":"647","heightMdMax":"431","screenLgMin ":" https: \ / \ / resize2.prod.docfr.doc-media .fr / / r / / 648.432, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop / / img / / var / doctissimo / storage / images / en / / www / sexuality / / for the first time / / for the first time -orgasms-condoms-fear-erections \ / you-don't-want-to-scream-oh-oui \ / 8513192-1-eng-FR \ / Vous-ne-crierez-pas-oh-oui-o h-ouiii.jpg "," widthLgMin ":" 648 "," heightLgMin ":" 432 "}} , {"slug": "it-will-be-annoying-noise", "title": "It will be-annoying- Make noises", "description": "

When two bodies rub against each other, strange noises can occur in the stomach. Sometimes the penis going in and out of the vagina also makes quite uncontrollable "fart" noises (we call them \"frouts"). You'll understand, sexual intercourse has auditory surprises in store. The best thing to do is laugh about it together – and reassure the other person if he is embarrassed that this is happening to him: you are normal and part of the game. " imageTopUrl ": {" screenXxsMax ":" https: \ / \ / resize3.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 422,281, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / memory \ / pictures \ / de \ / www \ / sexuality \ / for the first time \ / for the first time-orgasms-condoms-fear-erection \ / there-will-be-noises-genants \ / 8513262-1- eng- FR \ /Il-y-aura-des-bruits-genants.jpg "," widthXxsMax ":" 422 "," heightXxsMax ":" 281 "," screenXsMax ":" https: \ / \ / resize3.prod .docfr .doc-media.fr//r//492.328,center-middle,ffffff,smartcrop//img//var//doctissimo//storage//images//en//www//sexuality//first-time/ / first-time-orgasms-condoms-fear-erection \ / there-will-be-annoying-noises \ / 8513262-1-eng-FR \ / It-will-be-there-des-bruits-genants.jpg "," widthXsMax ":" 492 "," heightXsMax ":" 328 "," screenSmMax ":" https://resize3.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr\/r\/688.459, mid-mid, ffffff, smartcrop/img/var/doctissimo/storag e \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first time \ / first-time-orgasmen-condoms-fear-erection \ / there-there-will -be -des-bruits-genants \ / 8513262-1 -eng-FR \/Il-y-aura-des-bruits-genants.jpg "," widthSmMax ":" 688 "," heightSmMax ":" 459 ", " screenMdMax ":" https://resize3. prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 647.431, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / de \ / www \ / sexuality \ / to first time \ / first-time-orgasms-condoms-fear-erection \ / there-will-be-annoying-noises \ / 8513262-1-eng-FR \ / Il-y-sera-des-bruits-genants.jpg "," widthMdMax ":" 647 "," heightMdMax ":" 431 "," screenLgMin ":" https://resize3.prod.docfr. doc-media.fr//r//648.432, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop//img//var//doctissimo//storage//images//en//www//sexuality//premiere-fois// premiere-mal-orgasms-condoms-fear-of-erections/there-will-be-annoying-noises/8513262-1-ger-DE\/Il-y-aura-des-bruits-genants.jpg", " widthLgMin ":" 648 "," heightLgMin ":" 432 "}}, {" slug ":" maybe-not-orgasm-it-is-not-grave "," title ":" You must not have an orgasm \u2026 and that's fine! "," description ":"

In movies (pornographic or traditional) the orgasm is always there. But having an orgasm and having pleasure are two different things. You can be happy to have sex with your boyfriend/girlfriend for the first time, but still not to Cumming "comes out". Even in real life, it is rather rare for both partners to have an orgasm at the same time!\ "The idea is to gradually learn to have pleasure, write Clémentine and Ghada, it is neither a competition nor a performance \". "," ImageAlt ":" You won't be able to - Not have an orgasm \u2026 and it doesn't matter! "," imageTopUrl ": {" screenXxsMax ":" https: \ / \ / resize3.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 422,281, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first-time \ / first-time-orgasmen-condoms-anxiety-erection\/maybe-not-d-orgasm-it-is-not -ernst \ / 8513316-1-eng-FR \ / You-can't-have-the-orgasme-et-ce-n-est-pas-grave.jpg " ," widthXxsMax ":" 422 "," heightXxsMax ":" 281 "," screenXsMax ":" https: \ / \ / resize3.prod.docfr .doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 492.328, mid-mid, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / premiere-fois \ / first-time-condom-orgasms-fear-erection \ /maybe-not-d-orgasmus-it-is-not- serious \ / 8513316-1-eng-FR \ / You-n-may-not-have-an-orgasm-and-ce-n-est-pas-grave.jpg "," widthXsMax ":" 492 "," heightXsMax " :" 328 "," screenSmMax ":" https://resize3.prod.docfr.doc-media. en / r / 688.459, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop / img / var / doctissimo / storage / images / en / www / sexuality / first-time / / first-time- orgasms-condoms-fear-erection \ / maybe-not-an-orgasm-it-is-not-serious \ / 8513316-1-eng-FR \ / You-cannot-become-not-become-avoir-d-orgasm -et-ce-n-est-pas-grave.jpg "," widthSmMax ":" 688 "," heightSmMax ":" 459 "," screenMdMax ":" https: \/ \/ ​​resize3 .prod.docfr .doc -media.fr/r/647,431, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop/img/var/doctissimo/storage/images/en/www/sexualite/first-time/first-time -condom-orgasms-fear-erection \ / maybe-not-an-orgasm-that-is-not-serious \ / 8513316-1-ger-FR \ / You-must-not-orgasm-and- it-is-not-serious .jpg "," widthMdMax ":" 647 "," heightMdMax ":" 431 "," screenLgMin " : "https:\/\/resize3.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr\/r\/648,432,center -middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / Fr\/ www \ / sexuality \ / for the first time \ / for the first time-orgasms-condoms-fear-erection \ / maybe-not-of-orgasm-is-not-serious \ / 8513316-1 -fre-DE \ / You -n- Allez-peut-etre-pas-avoir-d-orgasme-et-ce-n-est-pas-grave.jpg "," widthLgMin ":" 648 "," heightLgMin " : "432"}}, {"slug": "we-don't-sleep-right-after-", "title": "We-don't-go-to-sleep-right-after", "description": "

Spoiler alert: the scene of lovers tucking the sheets in just after making love is a myth. In reality, the boy removes his condom and throws it in the trash, and the girl has to pee to avoid urinary tract infections (caused by the Sexual intercourse gets microbes up into the urethra, which must be evacuated if you want to stop them from getting back into the bladder afterwards. Boys and girls may also want to wash their teeth or brush their teeth. Clémentine du Pontavice adds that after the first time \ "they may be too excited to sleep or uncomfortable... that's fine. The ideal is to talk, laugh, speak to express your emotions \ ".", "imageAlt" : "You don't fall asleep right after", "imageTopUrl": {"screenXxsMax": "https://resize.prod.docfr. doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 422,281, center-middle, ffffff , smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / premiere-fois \ / first-time-condom-orgasms-fear-erection \ /we-do-s-do-s-not-directly-after-\ / 8513332-1-ger-FR \ / On-ne-ss-endort-not- directly-after .jpg "," widthXxsMax ":" 422 "," heightXxsMax ":" 281 "," screenXsMax ":" https: \ / \ / resize.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 492.328, middle - middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / first-time \ / first-time-orgasmen-condoms-fear- erection \ / we-do-s-endort-not-directly-apres \ / 8513332-1-eng-FR \ /On-ne-s-endort-pas-directement-apres.jpg "," widthXsMax ":" 492 "," heightXsMax ":" 328 "," screenSmMax ":" https: \ / \ / resize.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 688.459, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ /var/doctissimo//storage//images//en//www//sexuality//first-time//first-tim e-orgasmen-condoms-fear-erection \ / we-do-s-do-not -einschlafen -directement-apres \ / 8513332-1-eng-DE \ /On-ne-s-endort-pas-directement-apres .jpg "," widthSmMax ":" 688 "," heightSmMax ":" 459 " ," screenMdMax ":" https: \ / \/ resize.prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 647.431, center -middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / de \ / www \ / sexuality \ / for the first time \ / for the first time-orgasms-condoms-fear-erections \ / we-do-not-sleep-directly-after-on \ / 8513332-1- eng-FR \ /On-ne-s-endort-pas-directement-apres.jpg "," widthMdMax ":" 647 "," heightMdMax " :" 431 "," screenLgMin ":" https: \ / \ / resize .prod.docfr.doc-media.fr \ / r \ / 648,432, center-middle, ffffff, smartcrop \ / img \ / var \ / doctissimo \ / storage \ / images \ / en \ / www \ / sexuality \ / premiere-fois \ / first-time-condom-orgasms-fear-erection \ / we-sleep-not-directly-apres \ / 8513332-1-eng- EN \ /On-ne-s-endort-pas-directement-apres.jpg "," wi dthLgMin ":" 648 "," heightLgMin ":" 432 "}}, { "slug": "You-won't-bleed-out-of-your-blood", "title": "You-won't-bleed-out ", "Description": "

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First time: all the things that are going to happen that we won't tell you

The first time isn't necessarily bad, we don't scream with pleasure, there are strange noises, sometimes we clink glasses... Here you can find out all about what really happens during first intercourse and why it's completely normal.

"Making love is a language and a learning process, and like anything you have to do the first time." In their book Sex and Love in Real Life, author and illustrator Clémentine du Pontavice and obstetrician-gynecologist Ghada Hatem-Gantzer co-explain Humor and simplicity, how to freely, responsibly and thrive in sexuality. Hatem-Gantzer*.

In fact, we ask ourselves a billion questions during puberty. And when it comes to our sex life, those questions are often filled with fear and anxiety. The problem is that you have to find answers that aren't the right ones: In romantic comedies, for example sex happens in the blink of an eye and everyone always comes out happy. On the other hand, traffic in porn movies is often violent and partners don't always agree. In short, the portrayals we are confronted with have little to do with reality. That's why we debated with Clémentine du Pontavice and Ghada Hatem-Gantzer to offer you (the teenager, young adult or parent who wants to talk about it with their kids) a list of things that (really) are. ) Important to know before we start... even if it may confuse you!

Sources:

- Interviews with Clémentine du Pontavice and Ghada Hatem-Gantzer, founders of the Maison des femmes de Saint-Denis, which welcomes women in difficulty or victims of violence.

- Sex and Love in Real Life by Clémentine du Pontavice and Ghada Hatem-Gantzer, published by First éditions in September 2020.

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Summary of the slide show

First time: all the things that are going to happen that we won't tell you

The first time is not reduced to penetration!

Your partner doesn't necessarily know how to do it!

You will have trouble putting your condom on

You will probably use lube

We don't chain positions like professionals

Do you speak !

Sie werden nicht „oh ja, oh ja“ schreien.

Es wird störende Geräusche geben

Vielleicht haben Sie keinen Orgasmus ... und das ist in Ordnung!

Wir schlafen nicht gleich danach ein

Du wirst dich nicht selbst bluten

Das erste Mal ist nicht „notwendig null“ ...